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Since yesterday night I have trouble to sleep. Well, its because toxic things happend and it might takes longer time to be resolve. How to communicate with narcissist people? I'm having problem to spell the word... hahhah!!! Am I wrong to assume that the person that we wanted to communicate to keep avoid the talk by crying, are narcissist? Again I'm Googling how to spell the word! How are we gonna have the communcation then if the ending will be crying instead of talking? How are we gonna solve the issue arise? How? Can someone help me with this? I don't know how to help the person who need to face this narcissist. I can lend my ear but I dont know how to help for that person to counter back. Its a married couple with 2 small children which is 5 & 2 years old. The narcissist is the wife who were SAHM. Husband is working to fullfill his responsibility as a husband and a father. Maybe you've wonder why thus their problem become my issue for having trouble to sleep am I right? Like I told you the husband shared the problem with me and yesterday is likely the problem to burst but not yet burst. Do you get what I meant? The wife yelled to the son who wanted to play at the slide by walking up to the slide after come down from it. The moment she yelled to the son, everyone was shock and looking at her. The husband that come with the daughter were in shock as well. Because its not their house for the wife to yelled. It was PLAYGROUND that have other parents and kids. Do you feel the embarrassment that the husband has felt? The husband straight away asked the daughter to go back home. Arrived at home, the husband straight away come to me and rant the wife "BABI". Its the first time I heard that word came out from the husband. I'm in shock as well because the husband TOTALLY ANGRY with the wife behaviour. He can't accept that the wife yelled to the son in public. We talked and I tried to listen carefully so I can CALM him down. Another reason that the husband was so angry, its because they lack of money to went out actually and its become burden to the husband. The money left, enough for his fuel money to go to work. He has mentioned to his wife but she refused to listen and demand to go out. He is the sole breadwinner and of course felt tense because he cant provide what does his wife and children wants. He felt small and bitter. I feels sorry for him because his face totally miserable. The husband planned to keep working everyday without any offday in order to provide to the family & I felt sorry again and disgust with the wife attitude towards him. I told him that he need to have a 2 way communication between him and the wife and totally shocked when he told me that they cant have that kind of communication because it will end with crying from the wife. When that happened he will end the conversation just like that without any solution. And that is why I called the Wife NARCISSIST! I'm tired to type in for this story because it brings me headache. But I really need to share it. That's the story happened to the husband yesterday & this happened to me today. Well our house is nearby. I have my little chicky niece that really stubborn and love to do things without telling us. She went out with the Narcissist Wife brother on motorbike without telling me the aunt. Please be inform that my niece is only 7 years old! Imagine how furious am I when I yelled my niece name but no reply. The NARCISSIT Wife claimed wanted to tell me that my niece wanted to follow the brother. First of all my niece came to my house for sleepover and definitely I am the GUARDIAN for that kid at that particular of time. My concern was WHY CANT YOU THE ADULT ADVISED THE KID TO ASK MY PERMISSION FIRST? WHY? My mind run wild is it because the kid is not your kid that is why you let the kid go just follow anybody? Where is the common sense? I am totally furious and I called the HUSBAND to called the NARCISSIST Wife to called the brother to bring my niece back home immediately. I know what you were thinking... Why I didnt ask the NARCISSIST Wife to called his brother mysellf am I right? because I'm shaking angry with my niece and the NARCISSIST Wife. I'm scared that I swear a lot of bad words to her and I am try to refrain pick a fight with people. My niece came back with the face totally scared because she knew she FUCKED UP. I am totally angry and frustrated with myself as well because I need to scoled my precious niece. I shared this issue with my niece parents and they were shocked as well. Same goes with my mother. If this happen again there will be a war between me and the NARCISSIST Wife. Definitely! That's for now. I'll share other story at other time.
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